B. The agenda of the fathers' rights
movement continued
2. Custody/residence
Some fathers' rights groups do not comment on the issue of which parent should
be granted residence. A number of the groups do. Commonly they request a
presumption in favour of shared parenting.84 The Family Law Injustice
Group Helping Together is more cautious than most. It commits itself to the
comment that "co-parenting holds potential for resolving children's
distress".85
Research on the benefits of shared parenting is at a very preliminary stage.
Clearly shared parenting promises positive benefits for the
children86 and both parents87 if it can be made to
work. It is also obvious that in order to be successful there needs to be
a capacity and commitment on the part of both parents to parent, a respect
for each other as parents, a willingness to separate their relationship as
parents from the spousal relationship they are choosing to terminate, and
either some degree of compatibility in parenting approaches, or a deep commitment
to co-operation with each other.88 Where these elements are not
present, and/or there is a high level of continuing conflict between the
parents, preliminary research tends to suggest that the children will be
much worse off than they would under sole parenting
arrangements.89 Many commentators take the view that court-ordered
shared parenting is never appropriate, because it should only be encouraged
in those cases where both parents voluntarily agree to it, and in such cases
a court order is unlikely to be necessary. The degree of acrimony demonstrated
towards the custodial parent by some fathers' rights groups indicates a level
of interparental conflict that, if shared by the groups' members, would seem
to make shared parenting an inappropriate option in the circumstances. It
has also been suggested that a couple's shared ideological commitment to
egalitarian and non-patriarchal relationships is conducive to successful
shared parenting.90 Again, for men who share the views of some
of the groups, a commitment to the patriarchal family might make shared parenting
unlikely to be successful.
The manner in which some of these groups juxtapose issues sometimes indicates
that the appeal of shared parenting partly lies in a reduction in obligations
for the payment of child support and/or a more even matrimonial property
split. For example, Parent Without Rights comments that "custody should be
shared 50/50 as the norm with no maintenance".91 For some groups
shared parenting is presented as the better option from the children's
perspective in that it arguably produces better adjusted kids and prevents
"parentectomy".92
For many of these groups, however, shared parenting is primarily cast as
an equality issue between fathers and mothers. Participation in parenting
is argued to be a "right�93 of both parents. These groups argue
that sole custody is overwhelmingly awarded by the Family Court to mothers
and this demonstrates a bias in the system. For example, Parent Without Rights
submits that only 5 per cent of fathers who are able to reach a full contested
hearing of their custody applications are successful.94
Men's Rights Agency claims that,
of the men who actually go to court, only 18 per cent get sole
custody.95 Equality for Fathers claims that only 2 per cent of
males get custody through court decisions.96 These statistical
claims are generally unreferenced by the groups and so it is unclear what
their data sources are.97
There has been no large scale empirical research in Australia into custody
determinations. Two small studies of custody orders were conducted in
198098 and 199299 which found that only 10 per cent
of the cases were actually contested In these fathers got sole custody in
31 per cent of cases in both studies and custody of at least one child in
44 per cent of such cases in 1980 and between 37 per cent and 41 per cent
in 1992.100 These figures are quite high when it is considered
that in the vast majority of families prior to separation it is women who
are still primarily responsible for the actual work of caring for the children,
and one would expect that to be reflected in custody
determinations.101 As Annette Hasche has stated, the results of
the studies illustrate that:
Various explanations are proffered by the groups as to how the �bias" in
the Family Court works. Parent Without Rights lists a number of barriers
to fathers gaining custody. These are:
Equality for Fathers claims that the court doesn't look at which is the better
parent but looks at whether the mother is a bad parent.104 Julia
Brophy suggests that fathers themselves may contribute to this. She states
that, "In general fathers do not argue their case for the custody of children
on the basis of a history of shared child care: rather they attempt to discredit
the mothers".105 Fathers who run such arguments may not have any
history of truly shared child care to put before the court.
Only a few of the groups address the fact that in the vast majority of cases
mothers end up with responsibility for the children by private arrangement
with the father. Parent Without Rights106 submits that men consent
to women having sole custody for reasons such as misinformation by their
lawyers, restraining orders, the threat of being denied access, being hassled
by their ex-partner's new boyfriend, the enormous legal expenses they must
incur in fighting custody, reconciliation hopes, and society's gender
typecasting.
Men's Confraternity is alone in arguing that there should be a presumption
in favour of sole custody for men. It says that:
Yet in another of its comments it says that, "the courts have wrongly shown
a tendency to place the child in the care of a single mother, even where
the father has formed a new partnership which would make a substitute mother
available".108 If mothers are "emotive, superficial and self centred"
it is surprising that fathers would want their children to be cared for by
a substitute mother. The suggestion also presents the mother as disposable
or replaceable which is in stark contrast to its claims that the biological
father is irreplaceable or indisposable.
84 The Family Law Reform Party (JSC CFLI: CSS); Parent without Rights
(communication with research assistant); Family Life (communication with
research assistant); DADs (communication with research assistant); Women
and Grandparents treated Unfairly by Family Law (JSC FLA); The Family Law
Reform Association NSW Inc (communication with research assistant); the Child
Support Action Group (communication with research assistant); the Non-Custodial
Men's Support Group (communication with research assistant); the LFAA (Executive
Committee submission to JSC FLA); Equality For Fathers (JSC CFLI: CSS). Whether
shared parenting means a genuine commitment to undertaking 50 per cent of
responsibility for the actual work of child care for all groups, or simply
an opportunity to have greater access and more involvement in decision- making
processes, is not clear. See: Bertoia and Drakich, above, n 9.
85 JSC CFLI: CSS.
86 In that they get to have an ongoing relationship with both
parents.
87 In that both get to maintain ongoing contact with the children,
while neither has to bear the sole responsibility of residence. Thus both
parents get the time to meet their own needs, develop new relationships and
career opportunities. See the Family Law Council, Access - Some Options for
Reform, AGPS, Canberra, 1987.
88 In the Marriage Cullen (1981)8 Fam LR 35; FLC 91-113; In the Marriage
of H (1995) 19 Fam LR 165; D Coller, "Joint Custody: Research, Theory, Policy"
(1988) 27 Family Process 459.
89 Wallerstein and Blakeslee, above, n 65; F Furstenberg and A Cherlin,
above, n 66. See also J Behrens, "Shared Parenting: Possibilities... and
Realities" (1996) 21 Alternative Law Journal 213; P Durst, N Wedemeyer and
L Zurcher, "Parenting Relationships after Divorce: Implications for Practice"
(Sept-Oct 1985) 30 Social Work: 426. These authors also suggest that flexible
work schedules and sufficient income may also be necessary to make joint
custody work. For a contrary opinion see W Bender, "Joint Custody: The Option
of Choice" (1994) 21(3/4) Journal of Divorce and Remarriage 115.
90 G Russell, The Changing Role of Fathers, University of Queensland
Press, London, 1983.
91 Communication with research assistant. See also DADs (NSW) (JSC
CFLI: CSS); Equality for Fathers (JSC CFLI: CSS).
92 LFAA, Rockhampton, (JSC CFLI: CSS). This organisation also suggests
greater emphasis be given to the wishes of the child and that the term "custody"
be replaced by the term �parenting". Note that the latter request has been
granted by the Family Law Reform Act 1995. See C Bridge, "Shared Residence
in England and New Zealand - A Comparative Analysis" (1996) 8:1 Child and
Family Law Quarterly 12, who argues that, while in theory the purpose of
shared physical parenting is to improve the welfare of the child, the reality
is that it may have a lot more to do with meeting the needs of the
parents.
93 DADs (NSW) (JSC FLA); Parent Without Rights (JSC FLA); Family Life
(communication with research assistant.
94 JSC CFLI: CSS.
95 Communication with research assistant.
96 ALRC, Matrimonial Property.
97 It would appear that one common statistical method used by fathers'
rights groups involves polling their own members. See text to n 111.
98 See F Horwill and S Bordow, The Outcome of Defended Custody Cases
in the Family Court of Australia, Family Court of Australia, Research Report
No 4, Sydney, 1983.
99 S Bordow, "Defended Custody
Cases in the Family Court of Australia: Factors Influencing the Outcome"
(1994)8 AJFL 252.
100 The latter figure includes split decisions, that is decisions
where the children were separated or joint custody was awarded.
101 R Dunlop, The Influence of Mothers and Fathers Ten Years After
Divorce, Fifth Australian Family Research Conference, Brisbane, 27-29 November,
1996; S Boyd, "Investigating Gender Bias in Canadian Child Custody Law:
Reflections on Questions and Methods" in J Brockman and D Chunn (eds),
Investigating Gender Bias: Law, Courts and the Legal Profession, Thompson
Educational Publishing Inc, Toronto, 1993, p 172. C Cowan and P Bronstein,
�Fathers' Roles in the Family: Implications for Research Intervention and
Change" in P Bronstein and C Cowan (eds), Fatherhood Today: Men's Changing
Role in the Family, John Wiley, New York, 1988 argue that there is a significant
discrepancy between men's actual involvement with their children and what
men and women think that the male role in modern families ought to be.
102 �Sex Discrimination in Child Custody Determinations�, (1989) 3
AJFL 218 at p 220.
103 JSC CFLI: CSS
104 JSC CFLI: CSS
105 "Custody and Inequality in Britain" in C Smart and S Sevenhuijsen
above, n 9.
106 JSC FLA: Men's Confraternity (ALRC, Matrimonial Property).
107 ALRC, Matrimonial Property
108 ALRC, Matrimonial Property
3. Enforcement of access/contact
A. The problem
Many fathers' rights groups109 claim that court ordered contact
is not enforced and is frequently disobeyed by the custodial parent. The
Child Support Action Group, for example, says that custodial parents can
�unilaterally decide that the non-custodial parent is an unsuitable parent
or decide to punish them and withdraw access".110 Lone Fathers
Association claims that the main source of continual litigation in family
law is the frustration of court ordered contact by the custodial parent This
group is alone in attempting to provide some substantiation of these claims.
It reports interviewing one hundred divorced or separated men to find that
85 per cent had experienced denial of access.111 However a sample
consisting solely of members of the Lone Fathers Association is clearly not
representative of non-custodial parents generally, and we are not aware of
any scholarly studies in Australia which either support or refute the claims
made by fathers' rights groups in this regard.112 Interestingly,
the Australian Law Reform Commission has recommended that the Family Court
should be more robust in refusing to make contact orders in the future where
it is not in the best interests of the child to order contact.113
Perhaps the over willingness of the court to grant contact in such cases
has indirectly led to some of the problems in complex contact.114
For some fathers' rights groups denial of contact is presented as a denial
of the rights of the children. For example, Lone Fathers' Association claims
that when access is denied, children are denied their basic human right to
have a relationship with their father and are "held hostage" in breach of
the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child.115 For many of these
groups the issue, however, is primarily one of equity between the parents.
The perception is that court orders (such as protection orders, maintenance
orders and child support payments) are harshly enforced against men, while
women are dealt with lightly when they breach access orders.116 For
example, Parent Without Rights117 claims that the Family Court
doesn't jail mothers for denial of access, soft tactics like counselling
and mediation are used instead, but that fathers are jailed "almost weekly".
They also contrast the difficulties a non-custodial parent faces in enforcing
an access order with their own private resources while the public enforcement
of maintenance orders is the responsibility of the Child Support Agency.
The claim that court orders are harshly enforced against men is in fact
controversial. Some would argue that criminal assault in the home is not
prosecuted as it should be but diverted into quasi-criminal enforcement
strategies, such as protection orders.118 Others argue, in turn,
that protection orders are not taken seriously enough and that there are
limits to their effectiveness and enforcability.119 The Family
Court, in particular, has been criticised for failing to use the penalties
available in the Family Law Act to deal with male violence.120 It
is also the case that spousal maintenance orders are rarely made and difficult
to enforce,121 and that the collection rate for child support
is very poor.122
The Non-Custodial Men's Support Group stands alone amongst fathers' rights
groups in acknowledging the need to accept that "lots of people don't want
to see their kids.123 It is important not to lose sight of this
perspective. The Women's Legal Resource Centre124 comments that,
in its view, a more significant problem is not so much custodial parents
failing to provide access as non-custodial parents failing to exercise access
"despite repeated requests from custodial parents and children for access
to occur".
B. Suggested solutions to the problems of enforcing access
(i) �Malicious" denial
A range of solutions are proffered by the groups in respect of the "malicious"
denial of access by the custodial parent The first is that child support
should be automatically withheld when "lawful",125 or even
"reasonable",126 access is denied.127 Men's Confraternity
argues that prior to the advent of the recent Child Support Scheme if the
wife refused access the father could withhold payments of child support until
his access was reinstated. According to Men's Confraternity this was a
"counterbalancing" that kept both parties relatively honest. With the
administrative enforcement of child support payments under the Child Support
Scheme this "father's power of refusal" has been taken away.128
An obvious attraction of this solution is the sense that access is what men
pay for when they pay child support. Parent Without Rights makes this explicit
when it claims that child support should be a "user pays"
system.129
For other groups the converse argument is run. The poor record of fathers
in paying child support is used to justify giving fathers more contact with
children. For example, the Family Law Reform Party argues that access is
the best and cheapest incentive to encourage non-custodial parents to support
their children.130
Some of these comments betray an attitude of commodification towards children
- a sense of children as possessions of their parents and an absence of the
sense that children are dependent people with needs that are separate to
and that must at times take priority over those of their parents. There is
a lack of recognition, for example, that responsible and adult parenting
sometimes means sacrificing one's own immediate interests as an individual,
including one's sense of fairness, to ensure that the needs of one's children
do not go unfulfilled.131 In keeping with this, few of these groups
raise the point that withholding child support will impact adversely on the
welfare of the children. The Child Support Action Group raises this concern
but then goes on to say that "[t]he flaw in this argument is that the custodial
parent makes a clear and conscious choice in the matter". 132 If
anything can be taken from this comment it seems to be that any harm done
to the children by the withdrawal of child support is the custodial parent's
fault. At another point, instead of suggesting that child maintenance should
be denied, it suggests that it should be reduced, and adds, "of course, for
the children's well being, it would be preferable for legal leverage to be
applied to custodial parents who deny access".133
A second enforcement suggestion, which betrays a similar lack of sensitivity
to the position of the children, is that custody should be used as an enforcement
mechanism. In other words, when access is denied custody should be reversed.
Parent without Rights,134 for example, suggests that custody should
be switched to the father if the child has been brainwashed into not wanting
access to the father, "as is usually the case if a child doesn't want
access".135
A third suggestion is that criminal sanctions should be imposed if contact
orders are breached. For example, Dads Against Discrimination suggests the
imposition of fines on the custodial parent for non-compliance with court
ordered contact.136 Parent Without Rights137 argues
that denial of access should be treated as seriously as rape and that
imprisonment should be imposed. To counter the suggestion that jailing the
custodial parent will detrimentally affect the children, it suggests that
this should occur while the non-custodial parent is taking holidays and can
look after the children. Lone Fathers Association runs a similar argument
and yet suggests at another point in its submissions, that penal sanctions
are not appropriate or effective in cases involving
abduction/custody/access/maintenance where the offender is under emotional
trauma and no injury or loss is sustained by the spouse or children of the
marriage. In the same submission it suggests that disobedience of court orders
is not contempt (and that violence and death will result if it is treated
as such).138 Clearly in these latter submissions it is contemplating
situations where the non-custodial parent is breaching court orders.
Obviously there will be some custodial parents who have failed to resolve
their issues around the demise of their relationship with the non-custodial
parent and who allow this to cloud their ability to act in their children's
best interests on the issue of contact. In the absence of research, any attempt
to estimate the extent of this phenomenon is speculative and impressionistic.
What is clear is that it is difficult to come up with solutions in such cases
that don't unacceptably harm the children, particularly when one considers
the extent to which their interests are bound up with the well being of the
resident parent 139
(ii) Violence against the custodial parent
Solutions are suggested by some fathers� rights groups for the situation
where the non-custodial parent is legally denied access because of domestic
violence against the mother but "still long[s] to see their children as much
as their children long to see them".140 The language used by the
few groups who address this issue generally does not explicitly acknowledge
that they are talking about situations of violence by one of the spouses
against the other. It tends to suggest conflict between the two, which does
not bear on the relationship either has with the children. This contradicts
the considerable evidence that witnessing domestic violence detrimentally
influences the children's welfare.141
It is sometimes suggested that the provision of supervised contact centres
might "cater for antagonistic parents".142 Although supervised
contact centres may provide assistance in some cases, there is no recognition
by these groups of the disadvantages of such centres. The Women's Legal Resource
Centre notes that such centres "can be used as an easy solution to a difficult
problem, and contact may be ordered in circumstances where the child's safety
and welfare is compromised.�143 Indeed, other commentators describe
contact at such centres as "prison visits" and suggest that "[c]ontact centres"
and supervised contact should be abolished, since contact with violent and
abusive fathers is unnecessary and not in the child's best interests".
144
(iii) Practical limitations
The third scenario where access by the non-custodial parent may be impeded
relates to practical considerations, such as distance and the costs of
access.145 Many fathers' rights groups seek to prevent the custodial
parent from moving the children more than a specified distance from their
previous place of residence. The Lone Fathers Association names it "abduction"
or "kidnapping" when the custodial parent takes the child out of the jurisdiction
in order to deny access. Some put the distance it is permissible for the
custodial parent to move as 50 miles,146 some as 100
kilometres147 and some talk about "reasonable proximity to the
other parent�.148 Most of these groups would permit such a move
only with the consent of the non-custodial parent,149 and/or a
Family Court order.150
The Child Support Action Group proposes that liability for child support
should cease if the custodial parent does not get such permission. The Family
Law Reform Party would permit the custodial parent to freely take the children
away from the non-custodial parent, but only if they bear the non-custodial
parent's costs of access afterwards.151 None of these groups suggest
similar restrictions to prevent the contact parent from moving away from
the children.152
A number of fathers' rights groups suggest that fathers have difficulties
exercising access because of the costs involved and propose that such costs
be credited as the payment of child support.153
109 The Family law Reform Association NSW Inc (communication with
research assistant); Parents without Partners (communication with research
assistant, compared with other submissions by this group); The Family Law
Reform Party (LFAA Conference, 1997); The Australian Family Law Action Group
(JSC FLA); the Non-Custodial Men�s Support Group (communication with research
assistant); The Family Life Movement (communication with research assistant);
Women Who Want to be Women (JSC FLA); Parent without Rights (ALRC, Contempt);
LFAA (WA) (JSC FLA), LFAA (ALRC, Contempt).
110 (NSW) JSC CFLI: CSS.
111 ALRC, Contempt
112 In a document produced by LFAA and Men's Confraternity (Campaign
for Child Support Justice) it is stated that "Studies show that 40 per cent
of custodial parents deny access for vindictive reasons". No reference for
this claim is provided. In the US, Wallerstein and Kelly, above, n 65 at
33, estimated that 20 per cent of mothers in their study saw no value in
the father's continued contact and actively tried to sabotage the meetings.
Simpson, McCarthy and Walker, above, n 58 at p42, acknowledge that there
is a percentage of women who are �unable to resolve negative feelings towards
ex-husbands and find it difficult to accept fathers continuing contact with
children". However, they also point out, at pp 30-34. that fathers who have
lost contact with their children demonstrate high levels of bitterness towards
their ex-wives, who may have very different accounts of what actually happened
in this regard. They suggest that often fathers are at least equally responsible
with their ex-partners for the demise of their relationship with their children,
but are unwilling to see or take responsibility for this. See also J Pearson
and N Thoenness, "The denial of visitation rights: A preliminary look at
its incidence, correlates, antecedents and consequences" (1988) 10 Law and
Policy 363 on factors which lead to denial of and problems with access; A
McMurray and A M Blackmore, "Influences on Parent-Child Relationships in
NonCustodial Fathers" (1993)14 Australian Journal of Marriage and the Family
151, on non-custodial parents' perceptions about access; C Smart, �The Legal
and Moral Ordering of Child Custody" (1991) 18 Journal of Law and Society
485 and S Boyd, �W(h)ither feminism? The Department of Justice public discussion
paper on custody and access,� (1995) 12 Revue Canadienne De Droit Familial
331, on the invisible and undervalued work women do to sustain access.
113 ALRC. For the sake of the kids; Complex Contact Cases and the
Family Court, Report No 73 AGPS, Canberra, 1995, p 32.
114 Interestingly research has suggested that once the court gets
involved, the chances of long-term contact being successful are substantially
reduced: S Hirst and G Smiley, "The Access Dilemma - A Study of Access Patterns
Following Marriage Breakdown� (1984) 22 Conciliation Courts Review 41.
115 Newcastle Branch (LFAA Conference, 1997); Parent Without Rights
(submission to ALRC reference on Intractable Access, above, at n 113 (hereafter,
ALRC, Intractable Access)).
116 The Family Law Council is currently monitoring the penalties imposed
by Family Court. The Penalties Project should be completed in 1998.
117 ALRC, Intractable Access and JSC FLA. See also: DADs, NSW, (JSC
FLA); LFAA, (ALRC, Contempt).
118 J Scutt, Even in the Best of Homes: Violence in the Family, 2nd
ed, Penguin, Ringwood, 1990.
119 Joint Select Committee, The Family Law Act 1975: Aspects of its
Operation and Interpretation, AGPS, Canberra, 1992, paras 7.110-7.117.
120 Ibid, at pp 164-5; ALRC Contempt Report No 35, especially the
submission of the Police Commissioner�s Advisory Group (PCAG).
121 Orders for spousal maintenance are made in less than 5 per cent
of cases, Australian Family Law and Practice, CCH Looseleaf, para 25-505.
But note the recent increased interest in spousal maintenance, see M Quinlan,
"Spousal Maintenance" (1995) 69 Law Institute Journal 872.
122 The Child Support Evaluation Advisory Group, Child Support in
Australia, AGPS, Canberra, 1992, concluded that the enforcement activity
by the Agency was very disappointing.
123 Communication with research assistant
124 ALRC, Intractable Access. See the discussion in C Smart and B
Neale, "Arguments Against Virtue- Must Contact be Enforced?" May [1997] Family
Law 332; K Munro. �The Inapplicability of Rights Analysis in Post-Divorce
Child Custody Decision Making" 30 (3) Alberta Law Review 852 at p 865; E
Kruk, "Psychological and Structural Factors Contributing to the Disengagement
of Non-Custodial Fathers After Divorce" (1992) 30 Family and Conciliation
Courts Review 81.
125 DADs, NSW, (JSC FLA).
126 The Campaign for Men's Rights, Qld, (JSC Cal: CSS). Clearly what
is proposed by unlawful" denial is denial of access where there is a court
order in place. The proposal to withdraw child support where "reasonable�
access is denied might go further than this.
127 The Family Law Reform Association NSW Inc (JSC CFLI: CSS); CSAG
(JSC CFLI: CSS); Parent without Rights (JSC CFLI: CSS).
128 JSC CFLI: CSS.
129 JSC CFLI: CSS, LFAA (JSC FLA).
130 JSC CFLI: CSS. See also LFAA (ALRC, Contempt). This is not an
uncontroversial claim. See, for example. B Simpson, P McCarthy and J Walker,
Being There: Fathers After Divorce, above, n 58, who found no relationship
between the payment of maintenance and the quantity or type of contact fathers
had with their children. Compared with W Bender, "Joint Custody: The Option
of Choice" (1994) 21 Journal of Divorce and Remarriage 115 at p 122.
131 On this see also Bertoia and Drakich, above, n 9.
132 JSC CFLI: CSS
133 JSC CFLI: CSS.
134 ALRC, Intractable Access. See also: LFAA, Qld, (ALRC, Contempt);
Parents Without Partners (communication with research assistant).
135 Mothers brainwashing children is a part of what it identifies
as the "the parental alienation syndrome", (CSAG, JSC CFLI: CSS; Parents
without Rights. JSC FLA) based on the work of R Gardner, The Parental Alienation
Syndrome and the Differentiation Between Fabrication and Genuine Child Sex
Abuse, Creative Therapeutics, New Jersey, 1987. In the Australian context
see K Byrne, "Allegations of Child Sexual Abuse and the Expert Witness: Common
Problems" (1991) 6 Australian Family Lawyer 14, who is cited by fathers'
rights groups. See for example; LFAA, (ALRC, Children).
136 It is also sometimes suggested that the custodial parent should
pay the non-custodial parent's costs when they need to take action to enforce
an access order. See The Gay and Married Men's Association (ALRC, Contempt).
The general rule in family law cases is that each party bears his or her
own costs - s 117(1). The ALRC is considering whether this situation should
be amended in its reference on the Review of the Adversarial System of
Litigation.
137 See also the Family Law Reform Association NSW Inc (communication
with research assistant)
138 LFAA, Qld, (ALRC, Contempt).
139 See further the discussion on this in ALRC, For the Sake of the
Kids, above, n 113.
140 LFAA, WA, (JSC FLA).
141 For examp1e, see H Davidson, A Report to the Presldent of the
American Bar Association: The Impact of Domestic Violence on Children 1994;
P Jaffe et al, Children of Battered Women, Sage Publications, California,
1990; A Blanchard, �Violence in Families: The Effects on Children" (1993)
34 Family Matters 31; H Hughes, "Psychological and Behavioral Correlates
of Family Violence in Child Witnesses and Victims" (1988) 58 American Journal
of Orthopsychiatry 77; J Alessi and K Hearn, �Group Treatment of Children
in Shelters for Battered Women", in A Roberts (ed), Battered Women and their
Families, Springer, New York, 1984; R Morley and A Mullender, "Domestic Violence
and Children: What do we know from Research� in Morley and Mullender; above,
n 66.
142 To borrow the wording used by to Family Law Reform Association
NSW Inc(Communication with research assistant). LFAA (ARLC, Equality) also
asks for funding of supervised access centres.
143 ALRC, Intractable Access.
144 L Harne and J Radford, �Reinstating Patriarchy: The Politics of
the Family and the New Legislation" in Mullender and Morley above n 23. p
83.
145 ALRC, Contempt.
146 LFAA, Newcastle, (LFAA Conference, 1997).
147 Equality for Fathers (JSC CFLI: CSS).
148 LFAA (ALRC, Matrimonial Property).
149 CSAG, NSW. (JSC CFLI: CSS); Parent without Rights (3SC FL-A);
LFAA (ALRC, Matrimonial Property).
150 CSAG, NSW, (JSC CFLI: CSS). LFAA, Newcastle, would allow the Family
Court to give permission but submits that it should only grant permission
if the father is either not interested in access or is abusing the child
(not the mother), (paper to LFAA Conference, 1997). Parent Without Rights
submits that the permission of a mediation centre counsellor should suffice
(JSC FLA). It is interesting to note that comments in the media suggested
that the recent amendments to the Family Law Act 1975 might have satisfied
some of these suggestions by placing "constraints on custodial parents' freedom
of movement'9. See for example B Arndt, "Landmark Case to Determine Custody
Rights" Sydney Morning Herald 21 March 1997. For further comment on the effect
of the amendments, see L Young, "Are Primary Residence Parents as Free to
Move as Custodial Parents Were? (1996) Australian Family Lawyer; S Christie,
�There will be Bloodshed: Parental Relocation and the Family Law Reform Act
1995", Polemic, 1997.
151 JSC CFLI: CSS. See also Equality for Fathers (JSC CFLI:
CSS).
152 The issue was discussed by the Full Family Court in B and B: Family
Law Reform Act 1995 (1997) 21 Fam LR 676; FLC 92-517
153 CSAG, NSW, (JSC CFLI: CSS); DADs, Qld, (JSC CFLI: CSS): The
Non-Custodial Parents Reform Group (JSC CFLI: CSS). That income may be a
significant factor in the preservation of the relationship between non-custodial
parents and their children is supported by the findings of Simpson, McCarthy
and Walker, above, n 58, p 18.
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fathers, for whatever reasons, do not apply for custody in a significant
number of cases.... Although the general community, that is a majority of
the parents concerned, may decide that "the female of the species is the
better parent", the figures presented in the studies do not show that the
judges of the Family Court do likewise.102
Men should be given first consideration for custody of the children on the
basis that they are more caring, better equipped for long-term planning and
hence able to provide a more stable life for the children. Women on the other
hand tend to be emotive, superficial and self centred.107